| Location | Billingham |
| Age | 5 months |
| Date of Birth | 6/2007 |
| Date of Death | 11/2007 |
| Visitors | 3,442 since 24/12/2007 |
| Creator |
Joshua Kieran Reveley
7th of November 2007
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billingham
My little boy Joshua, he was a happy little chubby chops, and i love him so much. he will never be missed because everyone knew a cheeky boy like that.
how he died.
well it was Tuesday 6th November and my friend Hayley was playing with him and putting him into a hyper, i was lied in bed shouting Hayley to bring him up stairs. Finally she brought him up and he was in a right hyper and i said Joshua come on go to sleep now! so then i put his dummy in and he settled down. He eventually woke up for a bottle around 11 a clock so i fed him a little bit and i put his dummy back in and he fell asleep but i was gagging for a wee from when he woke me up so he was layed in me arms for about 2 hours and the i finally decided to go for a wee. i put him down genitally n he never moved. i turned the light on and he was pail. i screamed noooooo he's my baby why has this happened to me i love him so much then the amablance arrived they tried for 1 hour to get him back to life and he wasn't coming back! it all felt like a dream to me it really did! but it was real and my baby Joshua wasn't coming back i am 16 and lost a child. He made my day when i clamped eyes on him for the first time i fell in love. i always made sure he was ok and well looked after but now i don't have to no-more my brother Kieran Leom Reveley will be looking after him in heaven now until i go. love you my favourite son . love mammy He was only 5 month and 3 days.Come back!
(my tribute for the funeral)
My little boy joshua
I from the day i found out i was pregnant i knew i was having a boy.
i seen his tail in the scan.
so i decided to call him joshua kieran.
when i had him it was like love at first sight i was so happy.
i made sure he was well looked after and had everything he needed
.when we used to go over the town people used to say look at him wot ya feeing him,
while he would give them a cheeky smile.
He always did have a cheeky smile
.to certain people he would talk to and have a little giggle and bounce all over the place.
he was so happy he got everything he wanted.
i love him so much
and also the people who where there for him.
when you see that star in the sky just smile and think the good times
we spent with him.
he'll always be apart of ower heart and no-one can ever replace my baby boy joshua
because i love him and so do you
god bless him xxxx
(my mams tribute, from the heart)
Unless You Have Lost a Child
Don't ask us if we are over it yet- We'll never be over it
A part of us died with our child
Don tell us they are in a better place.
They are not here with us where they belong.
Don't say at least they are not suffering.
We haven't come to terms with why they suffered at All
Don't tell us at least we have other children
Which of your children would you have sacrificed?
Don't ask us if we are better.
Bereavement isn't a condition that clears up.
Don't tell us God never gives us more than we can bear.
Right now we don't think we can handle anything else
Don't avoid us. We don't have a contagious disease
Just unbearable pain.
Don't tell us you know how we feel Unless you have lost a child.
No other loss can compare to losing a child
Don 't take our anger personally.
We don't know who we are angry with or why.
We lash out at those closest to us.
Don't whisper behind us when we enter a room
We are in pain but not deaf
Don't stop ringing us after the initial loss.
Our grief does not stop there, and we need to know that others are thinking of us.
Don't be offended when we don't return calls right away.
We take each minute as it comes.
Some are worse than others.
Don't tell us to try and get on with our lives
We each grieve differently in our own time
Grief cannot be timed, for it will live with us forever in our lives.
Do say you are sorry. But we'd rather hear nothing if they are just words that you don't mean.
Do put your arms around us and squeeze us tightly
We need your strength to get through each day.
Do say you remember our child if you do.
Memories are all we have left and we cherish them
Do let us talk about our child
Our child lives in our hearts forever more.
Do mention my grandchild, Joshua's name.
It will not make me sad or hurt my feelings
But do let us cry. Cry with us if you want to.
Do remember us on special dates
They are a lonely and difficult time without our child
Do show our family that you do care
Sometimes we forget to do that in our own pain
Do be thankful for your children
Nothing hurts us more than seeing other people in pain
For we know that pain, as we have lost a child
God bless our Joshua β he will live on in our hearts, but most of all, he will live on in our thoughts everyday for the rest of our lives. Those who loved him, kissing him,and those who crave him, missing him.βR.I.P MY LITTLE CHUBBY CHOPSβ
God needed an angel in heaven
When Jesus lived upon the earth so many years ago,
He called the children close to him because he loved them so.....
And with that tenderness of old, that same sweet, gentle way,
He holds your little loved one close within his arms today.....
And you’ll find comfort in your faith that in his home above
The God of little children gives your little one his love....
So think of you little darling lighthearted and happy and free
Playing in God’s promised land where there is joy eternally.
Helen Steiner Rice
To love is to never forget,
To never forget is to have memories,
To have memories makes us smile,
To smile is to feel happiness,
To feel happiness is to think of our loved ones,
And never forget.
love marie x
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aw rest in peace baby josh, always in our mind.
well, i didnt really no joshua, butt to me he was gorgeous, he was shelleys everything, when i first saw her when she was pregent you cud tell she was having a boy, and i knew from her past she wud give this baby everything it wanted, and he got it! a loving mam, and a loving family, he was so cute when i first seen him he was a cuple of months old and he had so chubby cheeks he was gorgeous just like his mam, and then the day came; sophie said to me sam i have something to tell yer butt i dont want you to be upset, and i knew someting bad had happenede but sophie wasnt to sure if it was true, we both broke down, we were so upset about the loss of him, how was shelley going to cope without her babby boy? without her everything?, after everything she's been through with loosing her brother, it was awfull, when i finally talked to shelley, she cried for hours tellen me he had died, i was really close with her for years! and i cud rely on her for everything, this girl was one in a million and as for baby joshua, i cant belive hes gone! im glad hes got little kieran his big uncle looking after him and ino werever shelley is hes looking down on her thinking, my mammy was a great mammy, she give me everything and ino she did! she spoilt him and he was worth it i tell yer, i remeber she was tellen me how mnuch she was saving to get him things for christmas and how he was going to have little rockports, how much it broke me to no he was gonee,
rest in peace baby joshua, love you so much babe xxxx
such a lovely hansome chappy
Hi just wanted to say i have lost my sweet little boy at just 3 days away from 5months old, when he first passed they put it down to cot death but then after tests they came to me and said my son passed away from his lungs failing as he had bronchilitis, i had been taking him to the doctors asking for help but kept getting sent away but when a new doctor came into the surgery and i was there with my other son about his asthma the doc asked what was wrong with my babys chest to which i replied well i have been told there is nothing wrong with him from all the other doctors in the surgery so he checked him over and put it down to asthma and gave me medication that was not on perscription but from his surgery office and when i read the instruction leaflet it said not to use on babys under 36months but when i asked the chemist they said ur doc wouldnt of give him it if he couldnt use it so i started treating him but it made him worse but as i had to go back in a week to see the doc i carried on hopeing it would help him but on the morning he was at the doctors we found him face down lifeless.
The ambulance couldnt bring him back and so he was pronounced dead on the morning of 4/3/02 and still til this day i miss him so much and although i have had 2 more children and 1 on the way i cannot replace him and would give anything to have him back in my arms just to hear that sweet giggle, i have now 3 children 8,5 and 3 years old and i am due a baby on the 11/05/08 but those memories still have a place in my heart and i have a big gap where dylan lies. Well i have to go as my children come out of school in 15mins and i want to say i know how you feel and im glad to hear you have got things sorted for his grave as im still struggling with mine. x
About the INQUEST!
The doctors and everyoe, said that he died of suden death syndrome. they said they dont no why this is happening but this is something they are going to work on for the less risk of it happening. i was in the evening gazzete and i got a email off a magazine and they want to give me money for my story and i'm going to get joshuas name on the headstone out of that and donate the rest to people that are gunna try and stop the risk of suden death syndrome. since joshua has died, i feel like everythings cumig to gether for me, well about the headstone because all my friends let me down. and it was gunna cost around 300 pound and there was no way i could aford that. but thank god i can get his name on the headstone. at least its not gunna put me down nomore. thanks for reading x
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heyahh shelley babee ,,x
owaa yoo doenn ,,x
am always thinken ov joshh ,,x
anoo yah still goen threw a hard timee ,,x
buh am eyahh for yahh babee ,,x
lovee yahh loadss ,,x
andd a lovee josh millionss aswell (k)(L)
Lovee Sophiee x
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